30 Days of Thanksgiving: Day 8

(I'm still behind a day. Maybe I can post two today and get caught up.

Today I am thankful for teachers. Not just mine, but all teachers everywhere. I guess in some ways, that would include all of us, but for today's purposes, I am focusing on those who have worked and are presently working in educational institutions around this world.

Teachers help to mold and shape the minds of this world. They love and nurture their students. They spend countless hours preparing for their students and insane amounts of their own money on supplies. And let's not forget that a teacher's education does not stop at a Bachelor's Degree. Many teachers spend a good portion of their career, and again their own money, to continue to further their own education to higher levels of achievement because that is what is required.

More specifically though, I am most thankful this morning for the four teachers who must brave 27 degree (and colder) temps, rain, sleet, and snow to work the car lane at my five-year-old's elementary school. One teacher ensures that all children get across the crosswalk safely which connects the gymnasium to the main building while the other three open car doors and usher the children on into the building.

I am certain that at no point in getting a teaching degree did you take a course that taught you how to direct traffic and open car doors.

Thank you teachers for all that you do for all of us. You are truly the backbone of our society.

30 Days of Thanksgiving

Day 6: Today I am thankful for the Democratic process and the honor and privilege to vote.

Day 7: I'm so thankful for my children. Everyday I am amazed with the things that they say and do. My children are such a blessing to my wife and I and I cannot imagine life without them.

30 Days of Thanksgiving: Day 5

Today I am thankful for my Momma. For the woman who gave me life (and then threatened countless times to take it away if I didn't get my shit together). I am thankful for her love, guidance, and support. But most of all, I am thankful for the relationship that we have and the fact that I know that my Momma is ALWAYS there for me, my wife, and our children.

I cherish our daily talks. The fact that I know that all I have to do is pick up the phone and she will be on the other end and always says what I NEED to hear. Not necessarilly what I WANT to hear.

I adore the type of Granny she is to my children and I pray that I can hang around this Earth long enough to have that type of relationship with my future grandchildren.

Thank you Mom for being such an amazingly strong woman. I love you!

P.S. Happy 63rd Birthday. I hope you had a great day!

30 Days of Thanksgiving: Day 3

My wife. No amount of praise could adequately express how much I love, respect, treasure, and adore her.

We have been through so many life-changing events together. The births of our two amazing children. My (seemingly unending) sicknesses. Financial struggles. The loss of loved ones. Some amazing highs and devastating lows. Through it all she has been amazing.

Next June, we celebrate 10 years of marriage and are in the process of planning a Vow Renewal ceremony to celebrate.

I look forward to spending every year that I have left in this life with my wife. I know sounds cliché, but she really is my better half.

To steal Simon Greene's line from 'Guess Who' (because my wife LOVES that movie):

"That's just it, she's everything I'm not. You know, she's my other half. Without her I'm not whole. You know the thing about meeting your other half is you're walking around, you think you're happy, you think you're whole, then you realize you ain't shit without her. Then you can't go back to being just a half 'cause you know what it's like to be whole."

30 Days of Thanksgiving: Day 2

Today, I am thankful for our DVR (even though my wife has around 20 episodes of 'The Bold and the Beautiful' on it. She has gotten a little behind.).

The DVR is a wonderful piece of technology that allows my wife and I to watch shows together that come on while she is at work in the evenings. Because of our DVR, we are able to set shows to record while we are out of the house or are watching something on another channel. Another one of my favorite things about having a DVR is the fact that I can pause, rewind, or fast forward when watching a recorded episode. Which means, NO MORE COMMERCIALS. Finally, when watching live television, you can pause and rewind. So, should you miss that big play at the end of the fourth quarter, you can rewind. Need to tend to a screaming child? Hit pause.

So, to advancements in technology, three cheers! HIP HIP HOORAY!

30 Days of Thanksgiving: Day 1

Today, like everyday, I am so thankful for a loving, faithful, and patient GOD. It was HIS hand who I have held onto for the past two years as I have battled Congested Heart Failure.

It was very hard to find out at 27 years old, with a wife whom I adore and two very, very young children that I was as sick as I am. It has not been easy and there have been many very dark days where I have prayed for the will to go on. 

It was early on in my sickness that someone said to me, "If God brought you to it, HE'll bring you through it." And HE has shown me that many, many times.

And so, on this first day of Thanksgiving, I am thankful for GOD's grace, mercy, and wisdom. Without it, I could not and would not have made it these past two years. I don't deserve it, but I'm so blessed by it.